Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Baby #3

In the world of adoption, very little is certain. A birthmom could change her mind. A birthfather could enter the picture. But, the one thing that is absolutely certain is how excited we are to have another baby.

So, it's with equal measure hope and caution that we enter into adoption #3. Last night, we received a call from the agency saying that we had been selected by a birthmom. There were tears (of joy), head scratching (at the timing!!--we are in the middle of a move, after all), and lots of talk from the kids about what we should name the new baby.

It has been about a month since we were "active," about the same time it took in Grant's adoption. The baby is due June 2, and if all works out, we will be traveling to Massachusetts to bring the baby home (the birthmom lives in Fort Wayne, Indiana, but she's going to have the baby out east--long story). I got the opportunity to talk to the birthmom's mom (grandma to baby) last night, and we talked for hours. The conversation came so easily, was so full of love and laughter and hope. It simply couldn't have gone better.

We have yet to talk to the birthmom, and the first time we meet her will be in the hospital, most likely after birth. That's not the easiest of transitions for her, I'm sure, but we are confidant that God's hand is orchestrating these events, and therefore, can attend to her heart even now.

So, yeah, it's pretty exciting. Grant and Grace are very excited, talking INCESSANTLY about feeding and changing and being big siblings. It's very cute. It's hard to imagine that come summer we might very well be a family of five!

Oh, and it's a girl. Small detail.

8 comments:

Georgette said...

Oh my how exciting!!! Can't wait to see your family of 5 in July! You know I get to hold that baby!!!

Karin Jones said...

Great news Bret and Erin! So happy for the both of you!

AMV said...

Congrats! (with fingers crossed)

We might be in CA around that time, but if not -- you guys are more than welcome in Acton, MA! (Plenty of space and toys for the Big Siblings to attack.) :)

Katherine said...

OH MY GOSH!!!!!! We are sooooo excited - a new baby cousin. Andrea is looking forward to mothering another of the Hawkins gang! So are you going for another G name??? We've been making lists of boy and girl G names for a few months now!!
You will make a great family of FIVE!
How precious you will be to the birthmom - she will know how much you love "her" baby! We will keep you all in our prayers for a smooth transition - on many levels!

Tina said...

Very exciting for you!

Tif said...

I'm SUPER excited for you, Erin. Wow. I'm just in awe of God's hand at work in both families lives.

andrew,betsy,& noura said...

Very excited for you guys! Our bmom was from Ft Wayne too! Praying for you all and birthmom during this transition!

Lauri said...

Oh, so exciting! Congratulations, Mommy, Daddy, Big Bro, and Big Sis!